CHOICE

If we say “I can’t” does that feel like we have a choice?  Is that empowering us or dis-empowering us?  Isn’t choice about being conscious of what we CAN do, and choose not to do?  I love the word choice and all that it allows me to feel, change, do and be.  I love to be able to say “I could, but I choose not to” instead of “I can’t.”  To me that is a much more empowered place to come from, and allows me to acknolwedge that I could but for some reason am not ready, or it does not serve me.  Think about this.  Where in your life have you just ‘bought’ what others have told you and feel you have no choice?  Where do you ‘use’ the words “I can’t” to cover up what you aren’t willing or don’t really want to do?  Whenever we feel we have NO choice, it is very discouraging!  So, I challenge you to become conscious of when and where you say “I can’t” and CHOOSE instead to tell yourself the truth….I could but I choose not to, or some such similar words!